

Mongolia
The Wife Who Loved Butter
- Country
- Mongolia
- Age
- 5–9 years

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The Wife Who Loved Butter
Long ago, not far from a great city, a husband and wife lived with nine cows, a small house, and a patch of land. They were not rich, but they had enough to build a good life. The husband loved tasty food more than anything. If a sack of grain appeared in the storehouse, he wanted to cook it all at once. If he saw fragrant pies, smoked fish, or a pot of honey at the market, he readily traded away things that ought to have served the family for a long time. His wife loved fresh butter. She could churn it until it was golden, fragrant, and soft. “Butter is good when there is milk,” she often said. “And milk will come when we care for the cows.” Her husband only laughed. “Tomorrow will take care of itself. Today we should eat well!” One day, he took a cow to market and returned without it, carrying a large basket of treats. “We had nine cows, and now we have eight,” he said. “Is that such a great misfortune?” A few weeks later, he traded away another. “We had eight, and now we have seven. Nothing terrible.” It happened again and again. His wife asked him to stop. She counted their supplies and explained that winter was long. But each time he found a new excuse. At last, only one cow remained. The wife led it to pasture herself, gave it water, milked it, and watched over it closely. Then one day, she had to go for water. When she came back, the stable was empty. “Where is our cow?” she asked. Her husband looked away. “I… traded her. Some merchants came through with so many delicious things…” The wife was silent for a long time. “You gave away the last thing that fed us,” she said at last. “I cannot keep saving us from the same choice every day.” She took a warm scarf, a little jug, and left the house. She walked a long way through the snow until she found a small cave in the mountains. It was dry and quiet inside. She sat with her back against a stone and whispered, “May I have the strength to live honestly, work, and take nothing from anyone.” Then she heard: drip… drip… drip… From a crack in a pale rock flowed a warm milky liquid. The woman held out her jug. It was fresh and sweet, like milk. She gathered a little and, the next day, tried to churn butter. It was the loveliest butter she had ever made. So the woman made her home in the cave. She took only as much milk as she could use, wasted nothing, and gave thanks each day for what she had. After some time, she thought of her husband. “He is probably sitting hungry,” she thought. “I may be angry, but I do not want to leave a person without bread.” She put some butter in a small pot, went by night to the old house, and left it by the door. She did this several times. The husband soon guessed who was bringing food. One morning, he followed her tracks through the snow and found the cave. “So this is where you live!” he cried. “And you have so much butter!” “This is not a storehouse for feasting,” his wife said. “I take a little and leave the rest for tomorrow.” But the husband was already looking into every jug and pot. “If there is much today, why wait for tomorrow?” As he rushed about, he bumped the pale rock. The crack through which the milk flowed closed. The woman only shook her head. “This is what I have been trying to tell you.” Then she set off again. After a few days, she came to a wide green valley. Wild deer grazed there. They were not afraid of her, because she moved quietly and gently. Each morning, one doe came near, and the woman could take a little milk. She never took more than she was offered. Soon she had butter once again. And again, she could not help taking a small pot to her husband. Again, he followed her. When he saw the valley full of deer, he cried, “What wealth! We must drive them all into an enclosure. Then we will have as much as we want!” He ran, waved his arms, and called after the animals. The deer became frightened and fled far into the mountains. “You wanted not enough, but everything, again,” said his wife sadly. And she went on. Her third shelter was a great stone cave where forest animals lived. Their watchman was a small rabbit. “Who are you?” he asked. “A traveler. I need a place where I can work honestly and disturb no one.” The animals discussed it and allowed her to stay. The woman cleaned the cave, protected stores from the rain, and warned its residents when strange tracks appeared nearby. Several weeks passed. Once more, she thought of her husband. But this time the rabbit saw the sadness in her face. “You want to bring him food?” he asked. “I do. I cannot help it.” “To help someone once can be kindness,” said the rabbit. “To help someone twice can be kindness, too. But if your help is turned every time into a new trouble, you must bring not another pot, but honest words.” The woman thought for a long time. Then she returned to the old house without butter. Her husband sat beside the cold stove. “You brought nothing?” he asked. “I did,” she answered. “I brought a conversation.” She told him about the nine cows, the magical cave, the valley of deer, and how each time his wish to have more had destroyed something that could have fed them for a long while. At first, the husband wanted to make excuses. But he could not find any. “It seems I thought only about today,” he said quietly. “Yes. But tomorrow comes, too.” “What can I do so that you believe I understand?” “Do not promise. Begin doing.” The next morning, the husband went to a neighbor and asked for work mending fences. Then he helped villagers carry hay and learned to repair carts. He spent part of what he earned on food and saved part. One month passed, then another. One day, at the market, he bought not a basket of treats but a small heifer. When his wife saw it, she smiled. “We do not have nine cows now,” said the husband. “We have one. But this time I know that one cow cared for is better than nine cows neglected.” His wife returned home. People say that after that, butter never disappeared from their table. But they set it out in small pieces, so there would be enough for today and for tomorrow. And when the husband sometimes stared too long at the market treats, his wife only asked, “How many cows did we once have?” “Nine,” he answered with a laugh. “And I remember them all.”
May this story leave a little light in your heart ✨
